Ch Ch Ch Ch Changes...

It did not come down like a bolt of lightning or the voice of God. No special sound or visual effects to announce the change. I woke up one day and discovered that I was responding to stimuli in a different manner. The change was barely noticeable, yet my different outlook shifted the paradigms of my world enough to make me feel altered.

I can sort of pinpoint the starting point. I first felt the shift when friends and acquaintances proved me wrong. I mean so wrong that it was embarrassing, so wrong that it made me realize how much I had been staring at my navel, unaware of my surroundings.

I think one of the reasons for the change is that I do not want to be the type of person who cannot see nor appreciate the empathy in others. Surely that would mean an impossibility to offer empathy in return. I'm trying so very hard to be good and act good... What's the point if I'm thinking that everybody's mean?

Another way for me to tell of "The Change" is that I have become more perspicacious. Well, maybe the fact that I am less self-centered matter-of-factly makes me more perceptive... In any case, I do love this new superhero gift. I do not need to be hit on the head so hard any more and that's a little bit of a blessing.

It probably sounds so wonderful and life-altering, but it's not so simple. First, those changes happen on very small incremental stages. I am not sure that others are aware of them, even though I constantly mention how I see things differently and how I feel different. This new reality is so big to me, yet I'm positive that it is still indiscernible to the rest of the world. I wanted to put down "to the average Joe" but I'm not sure it is such a big change. I think that what I'm witnessing is really the "beginning" of change and I'm probably excited by that prospect, but I should stop thinking that it's so darn special... yet.

What if this does not last? How many times have I underwent a new change/outlook/reality etc. only to be thwarted in success because that old sluggishness comes back home to roost? How many times will I go through it again?

The bottomline is that I feel like I am ready to move on to something better and more positive.